Caution: brain under construction

We are noticing many dramatic developmental changes in the past week, almost as if switches have been flipped in Jack's brain.

Jack can repeat just about anything he hears, even if he only hears it once. We get greatly amused by having him sing snatches of songs -- last night he nailed "throw your weapons down," a lyric from a Neil Young song.

When we read books together, Hans or I often omit key words and have Jack say them. He has a great memory.

The biggest new thing is probably a marked improvement in his motor skills. This happily coincided with a big tub of Christmas duplo, so Jack's been building and stacking for days. He makes tall duplo trains, stacks wood blocks, and lines up and arranges objects in specific ways.

It's been a bit tough getting Jack out of his room and outside these days. Luckily Acrosports starts back up this week -- he always wants to go swing on the trapeze, so I know he'll get lots of exercise at least one day a week!

The monkey way

It's a sure thing: if you want Jack to listen, laugh, or stop crying, just mention monkey. His little stuffed monkey friend delights Jack to no end, and monkey gets incorporated into all kinds of fun activities. He goes to the playground, plays hide and find, helps build duplo houses, and rides on the train. He kisses away owies and snuggles in Jack's pillow nest.

Monkey also worms his way into stories and songs. Thus we have new and improved versions of:
Beatles songs, including Yellow Monkey Train, All You Need is Monkey, and Me and My Monkey (well, the latter is perfect as is)
Books that he particularly loves, such as Baby Blue Cat and the Whole Batch of Cookies, now known as Baby Blue Monkey Cat, etc.
Hotel Monkey Cat California sung at nappytime

Jack's also very likely to reply to any question with monkey for an answer. Anything from what do you want for breakfast to what day is today. Monkey, monkey, monkey!

New phrases and words

quesadilla
no mommy sing song
monkeyroni and cheese
laundromat

It's the end of the nap as we know it...

and we feel not so fine.

We had a great nappytime (Jack's word) routine going -- right after lunch Jack would run back to his room and get into bed. A little reading, a little singing, and it was lights out for him and some rest for me. Last week, everything started to shift. Now Jack doesn't want to take a nap. He still likes the reading and singing and snuggling, but then he wants to get up and play, even though he's tired and needs a nap. He skipped his nap altogether once, and was a wreck by dinner time. The mixed blessing that day was a very early bedtime -- he was asleep by 7:30. So we see the future and it looks not so nappy.

Sleeping 9 to 5...

what a way to make the whole family crazy!

The past week was a rough one. I got smacked with the nasty ear/nose/throat/chest virus that's been rampaging through SF, and Jack turned 2. I don't know if it was the excitement of his birthday or just that big brain of his churning, but he was a bear all week long, and I was in poor form to cope.

He slept badly (either only 8-9 hours a night) and/or woke up in the night nearly every night. In his waking hours he was alternately needy or defiant and challenging. By Friday I was fantasizing about dumping him in day care (or a toddler military school) until he starts preschool. Hans didn't escape the trials of this week either -- Jack was challenging at bedtime too.

Things are better now. Hans took Jack to the zoo on Saturday, and I got some rest. On Sunday afternoon we all had a great time at Fairyland, then came home and had a homemade pizza dinner with lots of laughter.

Jack sings more and more each day. Yesterday he sang a bit of "Let it Be," and that brought tears to my eyes.

And even during a week of turmoil, we've still had very enjoyable nap time. As soon as his lunch is over, he heads straight for his room and gets into bed. I gather up his books, bring him a cup of milk, and we snuggle and read. After a few books, I sing him the "nappytime" song (a variation of the nap time song from Yo Gabba Gabba) and then "Hotel California" and he falls asleep.

I've come to realize that parenting a toddler is a series of frequent peaks and valleys, with a few straight plains every now and then. I try to enjoy the good days, endure the bad ones, and remember that these particular challenges are only temporary.

Jack's phrase of the day

Happy birthday to me!

Jack's song of the day

"Ring around rosie
ahi ahi all fall down!"

Conversation of the day

(at bedtime)
"Good night Jack... I love you bunny."
"night night mommy... I love you mommy."

Too much is never enough

Sleep. We never get enough sleep. Well, not true exactly -- one of us (Jack) sleeps as much as he wants, but that's only 9 hours a night. Jack goes to sleep around 8:30 and gets up at 6 (sometimes 5:30).

Or course, we are much better rested than we were as "young" (ha) parents. I remember our first pediatrician appointment when Jack was 3 days old or so. Hans and I were both so tired that we couldn't fill out the forms correctly. We dissolved into a fit of laughing until tears streamed down our faces. There would be more tears later in Jack's babyhood, and not always the happy kind. When Jack was just over a month old, I called Hans at work (on his birthday no less) in tears, pleading with him to come home -- Jack would not stop crying and I was exhausted.

In his second year, Jack slept better until his teeth came in, and then it was 6 months of agony for the whole family. He woke up crying almost every night, sometimes more than once a night. I can remember reading to him during the day and being so tired that I could not decode the words. I would stop, stuck on a simple, everyday word, and think for 5 seconds or so, until I could recall that word.

Now Jack is 6 days from his second birthday. He sleeps through the night and takes a nap for about 1 1/2 hours every day. Some time in the next year he will most likely drop that nap, which will be a mixed blessing for me. I cherish that 90 minute nap in the middle of the day. It gives me a break, a chance to rest, catch up on email, write, and relax. However, we are told that when toddlers stop taking naps they go to bed earlier, so it'll be nice to have a bit of time to ourselves in the evening.

Jack's phrase of the day

I know rhino
and/or
I know pine cone

One of life's mysteries explained

I always wondered why there are so many shoes and stuffed animals littering bay area interstates. Now I have a toddler. I know.

Jack throws and flings things. Chalk off the deck. Rice from the table. Water out of the tub. His hat off the Little Puffer train at the SF Zoo (after the second time we gained a new appreciation for coats with hoods). So far, he's refrained from tossing anything out of the car. Just to be sure, I'm keeping the windows up!

A Quiet Day and Very Good Dinner

Yesterday was wonderful; quiet, calm, and fun. Since the painters are done and the paint is dry, we didn't have to juggle the cars around so they could park their truck in the driveway, or worry about rain washing the paint off the house (it happened the other day).

We had a very good dinner of roast, rice, and gravy, one of Hans' favorites. I cooked the roast according to the cheap beef recipe in the latest (Jan/Feb '08) Cook's Illustrated, and it was very tasty and easy. The gravy was tricky, since this technique does not render any meat drippings. I cooked an onion in some butter until it was golden, then built the gravy on that. Luckily we have turkey stock from our deep fried Thanksgiving turkeys, so that helped a lot. The collard greens benefited from the stock as well, and although I cut back on the pepper vinegar, they were still quite sharply flavored from a good dose of cider vinegar. The greens were Jack's favorite part of dinner, and he ate a lot of them.

Jack's phrase of the day (yesterday)

I am a big boy!

Good Nights, Bad Nights You Know We've Had Our Share

Jack has a cold, and Thursday night he was up in the night 2 or 3 times (we couldn't remember the next day). His schedule for Friday:

5:20 -- up for the day
11:20 -- nap
12:50 -- up from nap (painters were scrapping the windows outside his room)
8:30 -- to bed

Hans and I were dragging all day (and I caught Jack's cold), but Jack was pretty much bouncing off the walls as usual, until we lured him to bed with his train stories. Being sick or lacking sleep does not seem to affect him. He doesn't "catch up" at all.

Thankfully, last night he slept from 8:30 to 6:15. His nose is still runny, but he's not coughing or feverish. And the painters are done with our house!

Testing the limits

Since our neighborhood playground reopened recently, we've been walking there and back nearly every day. While I'm very glad to be able to stroll there instead of drive, it's become a walk for which I must steel myself -- as Jack tests his limits and mine.

Jack doesn't like his stroller. It's been sitting in our dining room for a few months now, completely unused. We can sometimes lure Jack onto his push-tricycle, but mostly he wants to walk. Unfortunately, he has become reluctant to hold my hand, and a few times he has darted away into the street. We talk about this over and over, but he hasn't stopped doing it, so every time we set out on the 8 block walk, I will myself into hyper-vigilance mode.

After a few weeks of his occasional running offs, I noticed that Jack pauses while walking before he darts away, as if considering which way leads to the nearest train display. Now if he stops and I'm not holding his hand, I quietly grab him before he can take any action.

I know this is just a stage he'll move through, but wow, does it wear me out.

And he's also getting rather particular about things -- he only wants to hold my right (no ring) hand. When I hold him with my left hand he says "no ring no ring no ring" over and over.

Monkey do

Jack's new best friend is monkey, a small stuffed animal that was a gift from Hans' parents. He likes to take him to the playground, color with him, and build train tracks with him. Jack holds monkey's hand and monkey picks up toys and puts them in a bin. Monkey also wears a diaper. Jack likes to hide monkey and then ask me to look for him. While I poke around his room, Jack squeals in delight. When I hide monkey, Jack comes back into the room singing "monkey, where are you?"

Old paint away

This is the second day of our exterior house painting project. By "our" I mean the crew we hired to scrape and paint about 1/2 the house, including the back and south side.

I'm so excited to get this done -- it's been on our "to do" list since we moved in. Sanders are buzzing like frantic bees, and scrapers are chipping away at the old paint, and Jack is napping. Most of the work is being done literally right outside his windows, and on the other side of the wall from his bed. Yesterday when I was reading to him after lunch I thought the work noise couldn't get any louder than it was at that moment, and then someone started pounding on the wall (or so it sounded). I stopped and looked at Jack and thought, "this will never work; he can't sleep through this." But he seemed nonplussed by it all, so I finished the book, snuggled up to him and sang "Hotel California," our naptime song. I hadn't even finished the second verse and he blinked once, twice, and then was asleep. The work went on, and Jack slept and slept, for 2 hours!

So maybe next week we should refinish the floors or hammer all day....

Strange but True

Yesterday Jack pushed the record button on the front of the DVR (the screen was off at the time, so he couldn't see what he was recording). What did he record?

"Monty Python's the Meaning of Life"

Boys and Girls

I'm amazed that at 23 months, Jack know the difference between boys and girls. I don't understand how he picked this up, but I have some theories.

When we stopped breastfeeding, one of ways we talked about the transition was that mommy milk (or, in Jack speak, "mamoo") was for little babies, and that Jack was a big boy now. This never made him feel bad; rather it seemed to make him proud and pleased to no longer be considered a baby. So since we talk about him being a big boy (always as a good thing), it makes sense that he knows he's a boy.

So how does he understand what makes a person female?

About 8 months ago Jack received a castle play thingy, that came with 4 figures: a king, a queen, a peasant man (!), and a horse. (Actually, I could write quite a bit just about the choice of figures, but that's another blog....) As Jack played with them, he would sometimes call the king or the peasant da. I wondered how Jack would relate to the queen, with her full gown and long hair. Who was she to him -- he has only seen me in a dress once. Did he know she was supposed to represent a woman, and that his mommy is a woman? Well, he mostly ignored her (as well as the horse). But somehow knowledge about gender has filtered into his brain, because now when we read a book that has illustrations with children, he can identify the girls from the boys. And when I ask him if mommy is a girl or a boy, he says girl. In the store, if he gets a balloon from a female clerk, later he talks about the balloon he got from "the lady."

It's all very interesting, and reminds me to watch what we show/teach him -- I am committed to raising a healthy, non-sexist boy who will be respectful of women (and everyone else).

Whoops -- maybe I spoke too soon about him having a firm understanding of gender differences. This afternoon he says his da is a lady.

Jack's phrase of the day

Mommy time

Becoming independent

In the past few weeks, my life has swung in a happier direction. Jack now plays by himself a good part of the day, so I have more free time to get chores done while he's awake. When he's napping I can read or rest or write.

Before this Jack often refused to do anything unless I did it with him, particularly in the afternoon. Cooking dinner was impossible until Hans got home, so I usually made something while Jack napped, then reheated it at dinner time. Today while I cooked dinner Jack ran back and forth from his room to the kitchen carrying toys with the assistance of small monkey (who, it turns out, also likes to color). At this moment Jack's putting toys in a bin, dumping them out, and putting them back in.

It's a joy to watch Jack grow and develop new skills. And I am more calm, rested, and present while I'm with him.

Jack's phrase of the day

Maybe baby

An interesting book for writers

I just finished "Stand Facing the Stove: the Story of the Women Who Gave America the Joy of Cooking," by Anne Mendelson.

Several aspects of the book are especially fascinating to anyone who either works in an editorial capacity in cookbook publishing (as I did) or is a published author (as I am).

We are so spoiled these days by computers that it's hard to imagine how daunting book production (particularly cookbooks) must have been in the early and middle part of this century. Creating and following a consistent style guide for a massive and intricate cookbook without even the aid of photocopiers is incredible, but that's how it was done. And the idea of indexing a cookbook without the aid of a computer is a bad dream -- indices are awful even with a computer.

Add the difficulties of creating and publishing a cookbook to an absolutely intolerable relationship with a publisher for years and years of drama. Irma Rombauer, who originated the "Joy of Cooking," made a rookie mistake when she signed the contract for the first edition with Bobbs-Merrill, granting the copyright to the book, as well as to an earlier, lesser edition, to the publisher. This one detail robbed Irma Rombauer and her daughter Marion Becker (who eventually overtook the book's subsequent editions) of perhaps millions of dollars as well as control over the book.

Things didn't get any better for future editions -- in 1962 Bobbs-Merrill published an edition of "Joy of Cooking" "without a contract, an act of stunning recklessness that left the receipt of income from sales something like the receipt of a live bomb." This edition was very badly edited in every way -- in the key to the symbols what was originally parenthesis intended to highlight optional ingredients morphed into a circle, and then later to a solid circle. Ingredients were spelled incorrectly, recipes chopped up but not reconstituted correctly, etc. Anne Mendelson compares the work finding and listing all the errors to "counting locusts in a Scriptural plague."

It's enough to keep an author with a book in production up at night, and a good reminder to check any contract carefully.

What Jack ate for Thanksgiving dinner

3 dinner rolls
about 1/2 cup cranberry jelly
2 bites of glazed carrots

He tried a taste of gravy and was horrified. Wouldn't go near the turkey or stuffing.

For dessert: a few spoonfuls of whipped cream, just to get his eyes all sugar sparkley before bed.

Jack's new word of the day

Holiday

The wave

We live within walking distance of a pedestrian bridge which passes over BART train tracks. When Jack's train obsession started we took daily walks to the bridge and watched the trains pass by. Then we realized that if we waved to the person driving the train, he or she often waved back, and sometimes even honked the horn. Well that was such a thrill we started waving to other people: MUNI train operators, street sweepers, and garbage men have all responded quite nicely to our waves. The MUNI drivers seem to be the most jazzed by waving, and they almost always honk.

We took our waving philosophy one step further and tried waving to people in cars waiting for us to cross the street at stop signs or traffic lights. This has been the most dramatic interaction of all. People stonefaced with boredom or nearly apoplectic at the momentary delay we're causing transform completely when Jack waves to them. Their faces just light up as they wave back, and the rage seems to drain away, at least for a few seconds.

Waving at strangers is something you probably can't get away with as an adult, but if you enjoy the company of a toddler now and then (or all day everyday), I highly recommend it.

Fun fact

Eucalyptus buttons (seeds) put into a heating vent in June will smell just like cat pee when the heat is turned on in November.

Tuesday dinner

Meyer Lemon-Cauliflower Risotto

Cauliflower is a good source of vitamin C -- many people who disdain this vegetable will enjoy it when roasted.

This is another dinner culled completely from Trader Joe's....

24 ounces fresh cauliflower florets
2 Tablespoons olive oil
1/2 teaspoon salt and a few grinds of pepper
2 cups arborio rice
1 onion, chopped finely
2 Tablespoons olive oil
1/4-1/2 cup lemon juice (from Meyer lemons if you can get them; use less juice if you have conventional/Eureka lemons)
1/4 cup dry white wine
3 1/2 cups chicken stock (or veg stock), warmed to a simmer
1 cup finely grated Parmesan cheese
2 Tablespoons finely chopped Italian parsley
salt and pepper to taste

1. Preheat over to 425 degrees.
2. Toss cauliflower florets and 2 Tablespoons olive oil together in a bowl with salt and pepper. Pour out onto baking sheet and roast for about 30 minutes, stirring once at about the 15 minute point. Florets should still have a little crunch to them. Transfer florets onto a plate to cool.
3. Over medium-high heat, saute rice in 2 Tablespoons olive oil until rice begins to smell nutty and turn light gold in color, about 5 minutes. Add onion and cook about 3 minutes, until onion is soft.
4. Add lemon juice and wine to rice and onion and stir. Begin to ladle stock into rice, one cup at a time. Stir as rice absorbs liquids, then add more stock when you draw the spoon across the pan and it leaves a clear path. Continue until rice is cooked to your liking -- most like it with a slight "bite". You might use all the stock, have some left, or even need a little more. If you run out, you can always finish it with some water.
5. Remove from heat, stir in cauliflower, cheese and parsley, and allow to cool at least 5 minutes before serving.

Jack's phrase of the day

Bread dipped in soup

Monday night dinner

Pre-jack, I bought most of our groceries at Andronico's and Rainbow. Now, it's much easier to make one big weekly shopping trip to Trader Joe's. I buy many convenience foods there, and these help me to cook dinner quickly -- essential when there's a toddler begging for attention at 5 p.m.

Every ingredient for this soup was bought at Trader Joe's. Of course, it can be replicated with food purchased anywhere else. I do support shopping locally, and look forward to doing so once Jack is a bit more independent.

Butternut squash bisque
1 1/2 pounds butternut squash cubes
1 onion, peeled and roughly chopped
2 large garlic cloves, peeled and halved
1 teaspoon dried thyme leaves
1 sprig fresh sage
1 Tablespoon olive oil
1 teaspoon salt
a few grinds of pepper
4 cups stock (any kind, it's really good with turkey stock)
1/2 cup heavy cream (can skip if you're counting calories)

1) Preheat oven to 425 degrees.
2) In a bowl, toss together the squash, onion, garlic, thyme, sage, olive oil, salt, and pepper. Pour out onto a sheet pan with low sides (like a cookie sheet).
3) Roast for 1 hour, stirring once after about 40 minutes.
4) Remove pan from oven and dump contents into a soup pot or large saucepan.
5) Add stock, bring to a boil, then simmer for about an hour.
6) Allow to cool, fish out sage stem and leaves and discard them, then puree the soup in blender.
7) Return soup to pan, warm until hot, then remove from heat and stir in cream.

One great thing about this recipe is there are several points at which you can stop and throw everything in the fridge. Then resume cooking when you are able. I make most of it when Jack is napping, then finish it at dinner time.

Garnish the soup, if you like, with crumbled blue cheese, toasted pecans, and/or pomegranate seeds.

You can also reduce this soup to a sauce -- simmer at low heat for about 30 minutes more, and toss with cooked noodles of your choice. Top with grated Parmesan cheese.

Score: Jack 3, parents 0

Penguin has been found. He was shoved behind the books on the shelf near our front door -- a location I was sure I searched earlier.

Saturday we bought a 3 ball set of small juggling bean bag balls. By Saturday afternoon 2 of the balls were missing. We looked everywhere. Sunday afternoon Jack calmly plucked them from the shelf under his high chair.


He's way out of our league....

An unexpected break

Our family routine has always included a morning walk for Hans and Jack. When Jack was a tiny baby, Hans took him in a front pack. When we moved down the hill to the flatlands, Hans pushed him in the stroller. And when Jack began walking, Hans and Jack walked together. It was a blissful morning break for me, a chance to get everything together for the day, put a load of laundry in, unload the dishwasher, etc.

Suddenly, about 2 months ago, Jack refused to go on the morning da excursion. Every day we asked him, and every day he said no. I really missed the extra time alone in the house, but Jack was so adamant, we thought it best to respect his wishes.

Today, Jack was sitting on his tricycle, and Hans asked him if he wanted to take it out for a walk this morning. Jack said "now."

So they've gone off on an adventure, and here I sit with time to write. Bliss!

Jack's phrase of the day

Happy to be me

Joy

During autumn of my first grade year, I can remember looking out the window and catching a glimpse of geese flying in their classic "v" formation. I stood up in excitement, pointed outside, and shouted "geese!" to my schoolmates. While I can't remember exactly what my teacher said, I can still feel the burning shame of being harshly scolded by her for disrupting the class. Joy was not fostered in that room, or anywhere at school that I can remember.

What a sad thing. Now that I am a mom, I don't think joy is taught. It's just there. It seems to rise up and out of Jack like steam spilling from a teakettle. So it's particularly unfortunate that during so much of my early schooling spontaneity and joy were squelched. We were encouraged to be quiet and pay attention to the teacher, and unplanned occurrences (like the geese) were distractions from the all important curriculum.

Thankfully, education has changed for the better since the 70s, and Jack will likely not encounter the same attitudes in school. What better way to teach children than to link learning to the things going on all around them on a daily basis, planned or unplanned?

Jack soaks up everything like a sponge, so we try to teach him about the subjects he is naturally interested in. These days it's fun to learn all the part of a train, count anything and everything, and sing abc's. The things he learns will change as he grows and his personality develops, and that'll be fun too.

But beyond teaching concrete things and concepts, I like to be joyful with Jack. He has such a delightful laugh and his face lights up when he has a funny thing to share. He likes to run around the house with a small stuffed animal and hide it somewhere (sometimes a little too efficiently). When the animal is found he laughs and laughs. A few days ago he learned to hop, and he loves that. Running has always been a big joy, and the sight of him running while laughing is pure wonder. Running, jumping, and laughing with him is a fantastic gift. It's reminded me that the joy is still inside me, just like it was that autumn day in first grade. And there's no mean teacher here anymore; no one to criticize me for my actions or behaviors. No one for whom to keep the joy inside. There's just me and my family, and the joy.

Jack's phrase of the day

My way or the highway

Choo choo

Jack's train obsession started about 2 months ago. It seemed to come out of the blue -- we visited places with trains before, like the Discovery Museum, and rode the train at Tilden and Fairyland, and he enjoyed all that, but he wasn't overwhelmingly enthusiastic. Then I suppose it was kismet; we rode the Little Puffer at the San Francisco Zoo and he came home crazy about trains.

For about a month we visited the Zoo at least once a week (we bought a membership) so Jack could get his train riding fix. At home, we've procured Brio train tracks and engines from toy stores and EBAY. We bought some train books and were lucky enough to get some passed down from a Glen Park parent. So we are really set up now.

The older train books have charming illustrations and often slightly annoying text. "The Little Engine That Could," (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/3eybtv ISBN: 978-0448431147) one of my mom's favorite books from childhood, goes on and on and about the dolls getting all teary and the children in the town who will be deprived of spinach and lollypops, but once the blue engine gets going, it arrives too fast at the top -- that should be the interesting part! Plus, there is a scary clown (of course Jack loves him).

"The Caboose Who Got Loose" (ISBN: 0395148057) has a wonderful flowing text and cute illustrations, but I don't know what to make of the story. The caboose doesn't like being at the back of train and sitting in the smoky trainyard, so when she breaks off the train, flies off the track and gets stuck between two spruce trees she's happy. Maybe it's the no one ever finds her part, it makes me think of "Into the Wild," or other poor hikers lost in the wilderness.

"Tootle" (ISBN: 0307020975) is about an engine in training who misbehaves, jumping off the tracks to play in fields of flowers. The chief engineer trainer and the townspeople band together to show Tootie the error of his ways. Is this really a message to conform?

Some newer books mostly skip moralizing altogether, and either feature stories light on content and heavy on rhymes, or drift way into fantasy. We all like "The Goodnight Train," (info at Amazon: http://tinyurl.com/3ycomr ISBN 978-0152054366) with sweet illustrations of children in beds flying along the train tracks. I actually started calling it Naptime Train so I could more easily read it at naptime, so Jack calls it that as well now.

Other volumes in our library:
"Chugga-Chugga Choo-Choo" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/2l5tma ISBN: 978-0786807604)
"I Love Trains" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/36kwq2 ISBN: 978-0064436670
"I've Been Working on the Railroad" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/2r2ztb ISBN: 978-1931722117)
"The Big Book of Trains" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/2lmpb8 ISBN: 978-0789434364)
"Dinosaur Train" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/2ufnvk ISBN: 978-0060292454)
"Two Little Trains" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/3c25fk ISBN: 978-0064435680)
"Trains" (Amazon info: http://tinyurl.com/35p8vh ISBN: 978-0744512236)
"Chugga Chugga Choo Choo" ISBN: 978-0786807604
"Clickety Clack" ISBN: 978-0140568295
"The Little Red Caboose" (ISBN: 0307021521)
"Animal Train" (ISBN: 0689848382)
"Puff Puff Chugga Chugga" (ISBN: 0689839863)
"Train Song" (ISBN: 0690047266)

Jack's new word of the day

Smokestack

Busting out

Add this to the ever expanding list of things I never knew would happen, toddler chapter: Jack is peeing so much at night (and sometimes during the day) that he is overflowing his diapers. During the day this is usually discovered when I pick him up and feel a dampness emanating from his bottom, or unfortunately when he gets up from the couch and a telltale blotch is left on the cushion. So far when his output has exceeded the limits of the diaper at night he has slept through this, but Hans and I face a total bed and pajama change in the morning when both of us are barely awake.

As usual, good tips from folks on the Glen Park Parents list include going up one diaper size, trying overnight diapers, changing him when he's asleep about 11pm, and using diaper doublers. The last suggestion seems best for us. We used these back when he was in cloth diapers, and since he still fits in the smaller size diapers, we could still use the smaller size with the doublers, which are like big maxi pads without adhesive.
http://www.diapersite.com/D_TIPS3F.HTM
Ordering them online might be the only reliable source for us, since I've been told they are stocked infrequently, and only at some Safeway stores in our area.

Hooked on Book Mooch

I've been Book Mooching for almost 2 weeks now, and it is strangely addictive. At this point it feels a bit like a pyramid scheme -- I've shipped 15 books and have yet to receive any (although 2 are on the way). Cleaning books off the shelves and sending them to people who really want them is satisfying, especially remaindered hard covers, since no one will ever buy them back at a book store.

http://www.bookmooch.com

Mommy Takes a Hike

Hans shoved me out the door Sunday morning for a hike -- only my second solitary trek in almost 2 years. Since I didn't want to be away for a long time, I chose San Pedro Valley Park, which is always one of my favorite places to hike, any time of year. The weather was perfect and the trails were very quiet. I love the way the seasons overlap in the bay area, and at San Pedro there were still red berries dangling from honeysuckle vines (summer), purple drupes on Coffeeberry shrubs (autumn), and new flowers on the manzanitas (winter). There were about a million hummingbirds zipping about, and great piles of Coffeeberry-studded coyote scat along the trail. I look forward to more hiking in the future -- if and when Jack is agreeable, we could hike quite a bit during the week.

http://www.bahiker.com/southbayhikes/sanpedro.html

New words and phrases

Jack is often shy when he is trying out a word for the first time. Yesterday at the playground he said "dirt" very softly and it took me several minutes to parse what he was saying.

We make pizza dough every Saturday morning, and he's learned most of the words associated with the mixing: barley, rye, and whole wheat. Still needs to learn cornmeal and bread flour!

Out in the yard he knows several plants: lupine, bay tree, oak tree, lantana, and dahlia. We pull weeds "by the roots," and he loves that. Good thing, there are about a million nasturtiums sprouting all over.

His cutest word lately though, is ketchup. He says it so earnestly and quietly.
And our hearts do melt when he says "hold my hand."

Our playground opens this weekend

It's been 16 months of construction and delays, but the Sunnyside Playground reopens this weekend. I always slowed down and took a long look every time we drove by, and in the last few days it finally started looking like a playground. It'll be great to have a playground we can walk to. And just in time for the rainy season!

Hiding and Finding

Where do they go? The tiny bouncing ball, no doubt, has bounced into oblivion, and easy to see how, but the penguin? Where does a 5 inch stuffed penguin disappear to? It's not like we live in a mansion with 8 bedrooms and maids' quarters and vast walled grounds -- you can almost vacuum the entire house from one outlet! I feel like I spend half my day looking for miscellaneous small toddler toys, and the rest of the day looking for the darn penguin.